Am I A Loser and Failure?

I am 29 and have still never had a date. I missed freshman and sopre dance, junior prom, and senior prom. I also never went to any school event, besides the band and chorus concerts, because I was part of chorus. I live alone and is somewhat stable. With some money in the bank, I graduated from Rochester Institute Of Technology with high honors. At RIT, I never went to a party and after cles, I would always go to my dorm room. I actually have not gone to a party for probably 15 years. Currently, I have only two friends from work. However, they have their own lives, and I do not talk to them a lot. It seems like I have no interests and no life. All my life my highest achievement was school.